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“Dealing With a Hurt That Never Goes Away”  

Sunday, September 8, 2019 is Grandparent's Day here in the US. On this day we will have as our guest speaker for our monthly international seminar call Dr. John Killinger. The call will be on Sunday, September 8, 2019 at 8 PM EDT.He will be speaking on the topic "Dealing with the Hurt that Never Goes Away". This topic affects all alienated family members, not just grandparents. Dr. Killinger is in fact himself an alienated parent and grandparent. 

He stated “I talk to four or five parents a week who are agonizing over their absentee son or daughter and the grandchildren they aren’t permitted to see.  It’s a hurt like almost no other hurt—a sort of living death, a loss without closure.  As I tell these parents, I’m one of you and I still haven’t found a good answer to our problem.  Personally, I try to be there for other people as much as I can.  It lessens my own pain and hopefully helps to alleviate some of theirs.”

We hope during this call those attending will find solace in being together and knowing Dr. Killinger himself understands the pain. He has a calming sense about him that seems to help and comfort those of us who have been on the several calls he has done for us. I hope you can join us.


Dr. John Killinger, noted author, minister, and professor, has pastored eight churches, including the First Congregational Church of Los Angeles and Marble Collegiate Church in New York City, and has taught at such major universities as Vanderbilt, Princeton, and Chicago. His wife Anne was the author of A Son Is a Son Till He Gets a Wife: How Toxic Daughters-in-Law Destroy Families, the book that spawned the alienated parents and grandparent movement in America. He himself has written more than 70 books, including three volumes of From Poppy with Love: Letters from a Grandfather to the Grandchildren He Isn’t Allowed to See. He has appeared on numerous radio and TV programs across the U.S., and served for many years as a special seminar leader for chaplains in all branches of the American Armed Forces.

These calls have those from 34 countries joining in with over 1,000 people on our calls. Each caller has the opportunity to submit one question that can only be 2-3 sentences total and must be in relation to the subject of this call. Deadline to submit your question is Tuesday, September 3rd. Deadline to register for this call is % PM RDT on Sunday, September 8th. These are firm deadlines!!! To submit your question and/or register please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
www.familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.org/parental--grandparent-alienation--equal-shared-parenting-symposium.html 

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"Narcissistic Behavior: How to Recognize It and What to Do About It"

On Sunday, October 6th at 8 PM EDT, author Betsy Wuebker will be our guest speaker. Betsy will speaking on the subject of narcissism. People who have never encountered narcissistic behavior in their relationships are confused at best when a high conflict individual enters their sphere. At worst, we get caught up in a toxic interplay in which we are manipulated, gaslighted, bullied, emotionally abused, and even physically threatened. Learn to recognize these tactics, set and maintain appropriate boundaries, and mitigate the harm these individuals can wreak on your psyche and general well-being. This topic affects many of those going through alienation.
 
 Betsy Wuebker is a writer who produces an award-winning travel blog, and has collaborated on and authored several books on narcissists. Betsy began studying narcissistic behavior more than twenty years ago in an effort to understand the relationships and behavior of individuals in her own personal life. She continues to source insights and strategies for people who are seeking information and support on her Facebook page, The Narcissist, which has more than 15,000 followers. Betsy is the author of 3 books on narcissism. They are "The Narcissist: A User’s Guide", "The Narcissist at Work", "The Narcissist You Divorce ".

We have 34 countries participating on these calls with over 1,000 callers. Each caller may submit a 2-3 sentence question which is in relation to the subject of this call. Deadline to submit your question is Tuesday, October 1st. Because I will not be available after Wednesday, October 2nd due to being in Kentucky at the Parental/Grandparent Alienation and Equal Shared Parenting until late Sunday afternoon, everyone must be registered by Wednesday, October 2nd. THIS MUST BE A FIRM DEADLINE!! To submit your question and/or register, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com. 

MISSION  STATEMENT

Our main concern is the children and grandchildren and then the complete family.  Sadly the children and grandchildren who are alienated from family are being treated as pawns and property. They are neither. They are human beings.They should not be regarded as such by their parents or any other family member.  We contend that it should be illegal to use children as pawns or instruments of spiteful behavior in an effort to prevent them from interaction with ALL other family members.  Our purpose and goal is to ensure the preservation of extended, traditional family relationships. In the process of this hell on earth called alienation, we need all the knowledge and support we can get to help our children and grandchildren and then ourselves. To contact us, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
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GOALS

  • We will work in bringing awareness to people on the subject of alienation and the effects it has on both the children, grandchildren and their families. Alienation is abuse! We will have many of our top experts on alienation in the world sharing information on their own pages here to help you learn more on alienation and other topics regarding alienation. We are also expanding our web site with much more information including locations of support groups in your area, professionals in your area who do have knowledge of alienation as well as blogs by experts and testimonies from alienated family members.
  • To offer international seminar calls with guest speakers who have expertise in the subject matter for that call in giving support and knowledge to alienated family members and professionals who work in the field of alienation. Parental alienation and grandparent alienation and all other family members is hell on earth as too it is for the children and grandchildren dealing with this. These calls are a tremendous help to those going through this and those who work with those who are. Please join us.

HISTORY

In April 2012, Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights was founded by Elaine Cobb who is also president. Elaine herself is alienated from her granddaughter Dare who she has never seen and is now 8 years old and her adult son Bryan who she has not seen since December 26, 2010. Her granddaughter Dare is alienated from her whole side of her daddy's family. This is why she determined to try in helping make a difference in this abuse being caused to the children, grandchildren and family members. In the beginning, her goal was to help those in the state of North Carolina where the founder  and president, Elaine Cobb resides. In just a short time, Elaine realized that alienation was a huge epidemic which was indeed all over our world. She realized at that time she wanted to do all that she could to help those suffering through this hell on earth. She started the international seminar calls nationwide. In less than a year, she took the calls on an international level. Now Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights helps in supporting 34 countries in educating as many alienated family members and professionals in regards to alienation through our international seminar calls. 

We also know one of the biggest ways to defeat alienation is to bring more awareness to those who know nothing or very little about alienation. This website was designed with that in mind as well as giving information to alienated family members to help them know all they can to get through this and one day hopefully be able to see their alienated loved ones. It is also here to help professionals i.e.., attorneys, mental health professionals, judges, legislators, school officials, researchers, writers, child advocates, etc. There is much to learn and we hope to give all as much as we can to help.

Laws must be changed as well to protect the rights of these alienated children and grandchildren to see ALL their family members. Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights has worked tirelessly for equal shared parenting laws as well as grandparents' rights. We will continue in this fight for all the children and grandchildren in our world. Alienation is abuse!!! 
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