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"HOW THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC HAS MADE FAMILY SEPARATION EVEN WORSE"


On Sunday, September 13, 2020, Dr. John Killinger will our guest speaker from 8-9 PM EDT. Dr. Killinger has been one of the favorites of so many over the years. We are so fortunate to have him speak to us. His late wife Anne was the pioneer to bringing grandparent alienation to the forefront for so many of us. We are so looking forward to this call. Because it is only a 1 hour call, there will be no questions submitted.

All of our calls are complimentary and of no charge to anyone. This is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. These calls are an excellent source for both alienated family members as well as professionals who deal in alienation. Please take advantage of these calls. We have over 1,000 participants on these calls from 37 countries.

Things were bad enough as we tried to deal with the problem of family alienation in normal times.  But the pandemic has made them even worse, because now our worries about our children and grandchildren are magnified and intensified by this great worldwide blight.  What are some thoughts that might ease our minds and hearts during this extraordinarily stressful time?  What kinds of mental discipline will enable us not only to survive this difficult period but perhaps even emerge from it with new and helpful skills for coping with other emotional problems we have to face?

Dr. John Killinger, noted author, minister, and professor, has pastored eight churches, including the First Congregational Church of Los Angeles and Marble Collegiate Church in New York City, and has taught at such major universities as Vanderbilt, Princeton, and Chicago. His wife Anne was the author of A Son Is a Son Till He Gets a Wife: How Toxic Daughters-in-Law Destroy Families, the book that spawned the alienated parents and grandparent movement in America. He himself has written more than 70 books, including three volumes of From Poppy with Love: Letters from a Grandfather to the Grandchildren He Isn’t Allowed to See. He has appeared on numerous radio and TV programs across the U.S., and served for many years as a special seminar leader for chaplains in all branches of the American Armed Forces.

Deadline to register for this call is Sunday, September 13, 2020 by 5 PM EDT. This is a firm deadline so please register early. To register, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
" A Review of Specious Arguments That Are Often Used to Criticize Alienation Science: Logical Fallacies and Flawed Analyses"
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On Sunday, September 27, 2020 from 8-10 PM EDT, Dr. Steven Miller will be presenting on a very important topic that brings the knowledge needed on this particular subject. This call is of no charge to anyone. It is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. We are fortunate to have the top experts in the world regarding alienation on our calls. If you are an alienated family member or a professional who deals in alienation, these calls are of great importance to you I can assure you. The knowledge and support given on these calls is critical in helping these children and grandchildren in having a much better opportunity to have a relationship with ALL their family. Please take advantage of them. There are now 37 countries that participate on these calls with well over 1,000 participants. You have the option to either call in on our conference line, audio skype or download our desk top app.

Lawyers have a saying: You can’t prove a lie. Although technically true, the truth is often irrelevant in court because, practically speaking, an attorney is permitted—indeed, expected—to distort the truth and mislead the court. That is euphemistically called “zealous representation.” Attorneys have a saying about that, too: If the facts are on your side, argue the facts; if the law if on your side, argue the law; if neither is on your side, mislead the court.

In the past decade, the science of parental alienation has matured to the point that bona fide specialists now understand that family dynamic quite well. The basic principles and key details are now understood quite well. That is true with respect to diagnosis, prognosis, causation, and treatment.  What’s more, the science has been codified in numerous peer-reviewed journal articles and reference books. And yet—unsurprisingly to anyone familiar with the adversarial U.S. court system—attorneys who represent alienating and other abusive parents continue to claim—without basis in fact—that the science of parental alienation should be considered neither valid, nor reliable, nor admissible in court. Not only is that wrong—indeed, it is utter nonsense—but it flies in the face of a recently published, seminal study by Lorandos that found—using strict inclusion and exclusion criteria—that between 1985 and 2018, 1181 Appeals Court decisions in the U.S. found the concept of parental alienation to be material, relevant, probative, and admissible (see chapter 9 in Parental Alienation: Science and Law, edited by Lorandos & Bernet, Charles C. Thomas, 2020).

Thus, there is often a huge gap between what the science actually says and what alienating parents and their attorneys claim it says—in court and elsewhere.

The “good” news is that alienators and their attorneys tend to use a predictable set of specious arguments, along with certain well-known logical fallacies, that are relatively easy to expose and discredit—if one knows how. (For lay readers, a specious argument is one that sounds true but is actually false.) Common logical fallacies in such cases include straw man arguments, red herrings, circular arguments, faulty generalizations, non-sequiturs, and others. The bad news is that the clinical and legal literature has been thoroughly polluted by poor quality papers that, at best, misrepresent the science, and, at times, appear to have been carefully calculated to mislead.

This presentation will focus on some of the most common false and misleading arguments offered by attorneys and others who represent or support abusive alienating parents—as well as how to expose and refute those arguments. Likewise, the presentation will address how other professionals, including treating therapists, forensic evaluators, and Guardians ad litem, can fall prey to such arguments.
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Dr. Miller has degrees in both Psychology and Medicine from Brown University and did residency training at Brown and Harvard. For more than 30 years, he was on the faculty at Harvard Medical School. Board certified in both Internal Medicine and Emergency Medicine, he also has many years of practice experience in Forensic Medicine and Behavioral Medicine. A cognitive scientist and medical educator, he has directed several hundred continuing education courses for physicians and other clinicians and has presented more than one thousand lectures on clinical reasoning, clinical problem-solving, and clinical decision-making. He is also an experienced expert witness, litigation consultant, and trial strategist.

Each caller may submit 1 question that must be in relation to the subject of this call. Your complete info including question, can not be more than 3 sentences in order for it to be submitted. Deadline to submit your question is Tuesday, September 22, 2020. Deadline to register for this call is Sunday, September 27, 2020 no later than 5 PM EDT. These are firm deadlines! To submit your question and/or register, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
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EXCELLENT READ FROM DR. ROBERT EVANS. JUST A SAMPLE OF WHAT YOU WILL GET AT OUR OCTOBER CONFERENCE
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Pre early bird special now in progress. Other specials listed below as follows:

July 1, 2020 - October 31, 2020 Pre Early Bird Special (non professionals) $200 (professionals) $300

November 1, 2020 - January 31, 2021  Early Bird Special (non professionals) $239  (professionals) $339

February 1,2021 - April 30, 2021  Regular Price (non professionals) $289 (professionals) $389

* This pricing includes a complimentary hot breakfast every morning, 2 lunches and 1 dinner buffet** A dinner buffet will follow the Saturday presentations at 6 PM

** Following the dinner, there will be door prizes and a time to just relax and fellowship

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"Cut Off From Adult Children: How to Tell if it is Alienation and What to do About it?"

On Sunday, October 11, 2020 from 8-10 PM EDT, Dr. Amy Baker will be our guest speaker for our international seminar call. This call is of no charge to anyone joining us. It is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. We are fortunate to have the top experts in the world regarding alienation on our calls. If you are an alienated family member or a professional who deals in alienation, these calls are of great importance to you I can assure you. The knowledge and support given on these calls is critical in helping these children and grandchildren in having a much better opportunity to have a relationship with ALL their family. Please take advantage of them. There are now 37 countries that participate on these calls with well over 1,000 participants. You have the option to call in on our conference line, audio skype or download our desk top app.

MISSION  STATEMENT

Our main concern is the children and grandchildren and then the complete family.  Sadly the children and grandchildren who are alienated from family are being treated as pawns and property. They are neither. They are human beings.They should not be regarded as such by their parents or any other family member.  We contend that it should be illegal to use children as pawns or instruments of spiteful behavior in an effort to prevent them from interaction with ALL other family members.  Our purpose and goal is to ensure the preservation of extended, traditional family relationships. In the process of this hell on earth called alienation, we need all the knowledge and support we can get to help our children and grandchildren and then ourselves. To contact us, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
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GOALS

  • We will work in bringing awareness to people on the subject of alienation and the effects it has on both the children, grandchildren and their families. Alienation is abuse! We will have many of our top experts and professionals regarding alienation in the world sharing information on their own pages here to help you learn more on alienation and other topics regarding alienation. We are also expanding our web site with much more information including locations of support groups in your area, professionals in your area who do have knowledge of alienation as well as blogs by experts and testimonies from alienated family members and also books that can help you on this subject of alienation.
  • To offer international seminar calls with guest speakers who have expertise in the subject matter for that call in giving support and knowledge to alienated family members and professionals who work in the field of alienation. Parental alienation and grandparent alienation and all other family members is hell on earth as too it is for the children and grandchildren dealing with this. These calls are a tremendous help to those going through this and those who work with those who are. There is no charge to any of this as this is a ministry to help those in need and also help professionals in dealing with this. Please join us.

HISTORY

In April 2012, Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights was founded by Elaine Cobb who is also president. Elaine herself is alienated from her granddaughter Dare who she has never seen and is now 9 years old and her adult son Bryan who she has not been a part of his family's lives since December 26, 2010. Her granddaughter Dare is alienated from her whole side of her daddy's family. This is why she determined to try in helping make a difference in this abuse being caused to the children, grandchildren and family members. In the beginning, her goal was to help those in the state of North Carolina where the founder  and president, Elaine Cobb resides. In just a short time, Elaine realized that alienation was a huge epidemic which was indeed all over our world. She realized at that time she wanted to do all that she could to help those suffering through this hell on earth. This is her ministry and she charges no one for any of our sources for you. She started the international seminar calls nationwide. In less than a year, she took the calls on an international level. Now Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights helps in supporting 37 countries in educating as many alienated family members and professionals in regards to alienation through our international seminar calls. 

We also know one of the biggest ways to defeat alienation is to bring more awareness to those who know nothing or very little about alienation. This website was designed with that in mind as well as giving information to alienated family members to help them know all they can to get through this and one day hopefully be able to see their alienated loved ones. It is also here to help professionals i.e.., attorneys, mental health professionals, judges, legislators, school officials, researchers, writers, child advocates, etc. There is much to learn and we hope to give all as much as we can to help.

Laws must be changed as well to protect the rights of these alienated children and grandchildren to see ALL their family members. Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights has worked tirelessly for equal shared parenting laws as well as grandparents' rights. We will continue in this fight for all the children and grandchildren in our world. Alienation is abuse!!! 
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