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INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE CALL REPLAYS

These calls are calls we have chosen as some of the best calls we have had over the past 8 years. Some of these calls you have asked to be replayed. Others many never had the opportunity to hear. Please note that we will not be adding all calls now to this web page. This is just a select group.

We are certain these calls will help both the professionals involved in the world of alienation as well as the alienated family members themselves.These calls give much education regarding alienation in many different facets. They also will give much support as well.

Please also note the cost of the playback is for 1 time and must be listened to the day you register to hear the specific call that you register for. While listening to these calls, you may pause as you take notes, rewind or fast forward so as not to miss anything that is important to you.

https://www.familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.org/international-seminar-call-replays.html
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"HOW TO COPE WITH THE HOLIDAYS"

On Sunday, November 8, 2020 from 8-10 PM EST, we will have a very special international seminar call. As those of us who are alienated from our precious family members, we know all too well how difficult the holidays are. This call will have 8 of the experts who will be sharing with you their thoughts on how to cope with the holidays. 

These calls are of no charge to anyone. This is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. We now have 39 countries participating on our calls with over 1,100 people attending. You have the option to call in on our audio conference line, audio skype or download our desk top app.

Our guest speakers for this call are Dr. John Killinger, Dr. J Michael Bone, Linda Gottlieb, Dr. Amy Baker, Dr. Colleen Murray, Dr. Steven Miller, Robert Hoffman, and Dr. Mark Mosk. 
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There will be no questions for this particular call. Deadline to register is Sunday, November 8, 2020 by 5 PM EST. This must be a firm deadline! To register, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com. Please invite others.
"HOW TO DOCUMENT AND PROVE PARENTAL ALIENATION"

 On Sunday, November 22, 2020 from 8-9 PM EST, Dr. Lynn Steinberg will be our guest speaker for our international seminar calls. This call is of no charge to anyone joining us. It is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. We are fortunate to have the top experts in the world regarding alienation on our calls. If you are an alienated family member or a professional who deals in alienation, these calls are of great importance to you I can assure you. The knowledge and support given on these calls is critical in helping these children and grandchildren in having a much better opportunity to have a relationship with ALL their family. Please take advantage of them. There are now 39 countries that participate on these calls with well over 1,000 participants. You have the option to call in on our conference line, audio skype or download our desk top app.

When targeted parents discover that they have been alienated from their child or children, they are likely to experience a tsunami of powerful emotions—shock, pain, disbelief, confusion, paralysis, and many others. In this very practical presentation, Dr. Lynn Steinberg will review how alienated parents and grandparents can recognize what is happening—not only to recognize the alienation itself, but related behaviors such as manipulative behavior by the alienating parent and dysfunctional behavior by the alienated child or children. Although she will review some of the well-known features of parental alienation her main focus will be on how to document the most relevant and important behaviors for the benefit of mental health and legal professionals, that is, for therapists, evaluators, attorneys, and courts. Having such skills can make the difference between a good outcome and a poor one. More specifically, Dr. Steinberg will present techniques that targeted parents and grandparents can use to expose and (hopefully) neutralize various alienating strategies. 
 
There’s an old saying: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. It’s important for targeted parents to keep this in mind. Although it’s understandable that targeted parents can present with the Four A’s—that is, to come across as Anxious, Agitated, Angry, and Afraid—that can be a recipe for disaster when dealing with anyone, even your friends and family, let alone court-appointed professionals.
 
How can targeted parents make a good impression—or, for that matter, the best impression? Why might an abusive alienating parent present better than a non-abusive alienated parent? What can alienated parents do to get their messages across? Dr. Steinberg will address these and related points. Meanwhile, a short answer would be to remember the Four C’s—to be Cool, Calm, Charming, and Convincing. Unfortunately, for reasons to be discussed, alienating parents tend to be better at this than targeted parents. Likewise, it’s important to keep in mind another old saying: You need to sell yourself before you can sell your positions or opinions.
 
Indeed, that might be the single most important thing for alienated parents to keep in mind, especially when dealing with professionals, many of whom are likely to be skeptical, if not dismissive, of any parent who presents with the Four A’s. That is likely to be all the more important if the child or children have expressed a strong preference for one parent—the favored parent—over the other.
 
If you are one of those “other” parents—or if you are a mental health or legal professional who works with such parents—this presentation should be very helpful.


​Trained in the Family Systems model, Dr. Steinberg works with families, couples, groups and individuals.  She has specialized in working with children and adults abused as children for more than 40 years.

She worked in the courts as an expert on sexual abuse with children, adults and in the work place.

Her interest and background grew naturally to embrace the psychological abuse of Parent Alienation, which she has specialized in for the last 10 years.  This includes false accusations of sexual abuse.

She offers a Four Day Intensive Family Reunification program for Alienated Parents and their alienated children.  It takes place in Los Angeles.

She is an expert witness in Parent Alienation in the Children’s Court and Family Court.  She can also testify to the treatment of members of the Alienated Family and assist with Court Appearances.

Dr. Steinberg is also a trained Mediator and has mediated for the Superior Court.

Because this call is an hour call, we will not be submitting any questions. All callers MUST be registered by Sunday, November 22, 2020 no later than 5 PM EST. To register, email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
PRE EARLY BIRD REGISTRATION NOW IN PROGRESS
https://www.familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.org/helping-courts-understand-the-phenomenon-of-alienation-nc-conference.html

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EXCELLENT READ FROM DR. ROBERT EVANS. JUST A SAMPLE OF WHAT YOU WILL GET AT OUR OCTOBER CONFERENCE
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Pre early bird special now in progress. Other specials listed below as follows:

July 1, 2020 - October 31, 2020 Pre Early Bird Special (non professionals) $200 (professionals) $300

November 1, 2020 - January 31, 2021  Early Bird Special (non professionals) $239  (professionals) $339

February 1,2021 - April 30, 2021  Regular Price (non professionals) $289 (professionals) $389

* This pricing includes a complimentary hot breakfast every morning, 2 lunches and 1 dinner buffet** A dinner buffet will follow the Saturday presentations at 6 PM

** Following the dinner, there will be door prizes and a time to just relax and fellowship

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"Enough Already! Suing for Damage$ to Make Alienators and their Enablers Pay"

On Sunday, December 6, 2020 from 8-10 PM EST, we will have our monthly international seminar call. Our guest speaker for this call will be Ashish Joshi.

These calls are of no charge to anyone. This is a ministry of Family Access-Fighting for Children's Rights. We now have 39 countries participating on our calls with over 1,100 people attending. You have the option to call in on our audio conference line, audio skype or download our desk top app.

 In a case involving parental alienation, the number one goal is to protect the child from the ongoing psychological abuse. But what do you do once the child’s wellbeing is safeguarded and the child is away from the toxic influence of the alienating parent? Or, as in some unfortunate but sadly not uncommon scenarios, the child is beyond the reach of the courts due to emancipation or other reason—what do you do then? It is very difficult if not impossible for courts to change the pathological mindset of an alienator, especially if the alienator has undiagnosed personality disorders. But what courts can do is to ensure that actions have consequences. 

Parental alienating behaviors devastate a parent (or grandparent’s) relationship with the child. This loss of relationship often results in severe emotional distress, if not outright trauma for the rejected parent (or grandparents). In many cases the aggrieved & targeted parent (or grandparents) can bring a legal action seeking money damages for attorney fees, therapy costs, and ancillary litigation costs that he / they were compelled to spend to defend themselves against false allegations and to protect their relationship with the child. In addition, the targeted parent / grandparent can also sue for money damages to compensate them for the mental or emotional distress that they suffered due to parental alienation. 

And it’s not just about making alienators pay for their behaviors. The professionals who enable alienation—intentionally or through gross negligence or reckless conduct—should face consequences for for their actions (or omissions). Guardians ad litem, minor’s counsel, child’s therapist, social workers...all are accountable to their respective rules of professional conduct and codes of ethics. Unless checked, these professionals will continue to do untold damage to countless families through their incompetence, negligence, or simply callous indifference. 

Parental alienation is child abuse. And abusive behavior should neither be condoned nor excused. It’s time to make the alienators and their enablers PAY for their abusive actions. This presentation will discuss legal remedies that are available to targeted parents and grandparents when seeking redress and monetary damages for the severe financial and emotional distress that they have suffered due to parental alienation.

Ashish Joshi is the owner and managing partner of Joshi: Attorneys + Counselors. He serves as the lead counsel in high-stakes, complex family law and divorce cases. He has counseled and/or represented clients in state and federal courts across the United States and internationally, including in India, United Kingdom, Canada, Luxembourg, Japan, Hong Kong, British Virgin Islands, and China. Mr. Joshi has been admitted to the Bar of the Supreme Court of the United States, state bars of New York, Michigan, the District of Columbia, and Gujarat, India. Mr. Joshi serves as a senior editor of Litigation, the flagship journal of the ABA’s Section of Litigation, and on the advisory board of The Champion, the journal published by the National Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers (NACDL). He is the author of the forthcoming book, Litigating Parental Alienation. 

Each caller may submit 1 question that must be in relation to the subject of this call. Your complete info including question, can not be more than 3 sentences in order for it to be submitted. Deadline to submit your question is Tuesday, December 1, 2020. Deadline to register for this call is Sunday, December 6, 2020 no later than 5 PM EST. These are firm deadlines! To submit your question and/or register, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.

MISSION  STATEMENT

Our main concern is the children and grandchildren and then the complete family.  Sadly the children and grandchildren who are alienated from family are being treated as pawns and property. They are neither. They are human beings.They should not be regarded as such by their parents or any other family member.  We contend that it should be illegal to use children as pawns or instruments of spiteful behaviour in an effort to prevent them from interaction with ALL other family members.  Our purpose and goal is to ensure the preservation of extended, traditional family relationships. In the process of this hell on earth called alienation, we need all the knowledge, support and resources we can get to help our children and grandchildren and then ourselves. Professionals who deal with alienation in helping families will glean much from this website as well. To contact us, please email familyaccessinnc@aol.com.
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GOALS

  • We will work in bringing awareness, education, and support  to people on the subject of alienation and the effects it has on both the children, grandchildren and their families. Alienation is abuse! We will have many of our top experts and professionals regarding alienation in the world sharing information on their own pages here to help you learn more on alienation and other topics regarding alienation. We are also expanding our web site with much more information including locations of support groups in your area, professionals in your area who do have knowledge of alienation as well as blogs by experts and testimonies from alienated family members and also books that can help you on this subject of alienation.
  • To offer international seminar calls with guest speakers who have expertise in the subject matter for that call in giving support and knowledge to alienated family members and professionals who work in the field of alienation. Parental alienation and grandparent alienation and all other family members is hell on earth as too it is for the children and grandchildren dealing with this. These calls are a tremendous help to those going through this and those who work with those who are. There is no charge to any of this as this is a ministry to help those in need and also help professionals in dealing with this. Please join us.

HISTORY

In April 2012, Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights was founded by Elaine Cobb who is also president. Elaine herself is alienated from her granddaughter Dare who she has never seen and is now 9 years old and her adult son Bryan who she has not been a part of his family's lives since December 26, 2010. Her granddaughter Dare is alienated from her whole side of her daddy's family. This is why she determined to try in helping make a difference in this abuse called alienation being caused to the children, grandchildren and family members. 


In the beginning, her goal was to help those in the state of North Carolina where the founder  and president, Elaine Cobb resides. In just a short time, Elaine realized that alienation was a huge epidemic which was indeed all over our world. She realized at that time she wanted to do all that she could to help those suffering through this hell on earth. This is her ministry. Elaine understands the pain and wants much to help in any way possible to help these children and grandchildren have access to all of their family.


 She started the international seminar calls nationwide. In less than a year, she took the calls on an international level. Now Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights helps in supporting 39 countries in educating as many alienated family members and professionals in regards to alienation through our international seminar calls. 

Elaine also knew one of the biggest ways to defeat alienation is to bring more awareness and education to those who know nothing or very little about alienation. The website familyaccessfightingforchildrensrights.org was designed with that in mind as well as giving information to alienated family members to help them know all they can to get through this and one day hopefully be able to see their alienated loved ones. We also provide much support to these families in giving them these tools to better educate. It is also here to help professionals i.e.., attorneys, mental health professionals, judges, legislators, school officials, researchers, writers, child advocates, etc. There is much to learn and we hope to give all as much as we can to help.

Family Access- Fighting for Children's Rights is not responsible for any posts made here by anyone. This is a public web site which means anyone may view it.